In my second dream about Lord Shiva, I was having people raise a very?
You are beginning to value/venerate the masculine principle, which is truth,initiative-based productivity, impetus-creativity, desire, Will, in you, and as a result you are crying out for this masculine principle in you to be in harmony with (wed to) Parvati, the feminine principle, which is love, responsive-based productivity, artistic-creativity, conscience, emotions. Getting in touch with these spiritual ideas (Siva and Parvati) is a metaphor of getting in touch with these most fundamental principles of life. This getting in touch looks like you coming to value ideal life, which takes on a distinctly masculine and feminine form. If you dare to worship Siva (deep truth), you will need Parvati (perfectly pure love) to be present as well. I suspect you have been pursuing some kind of ideal, and this is represented as this dream of Siva and Parvati. Pursuing an ideal life implies you are not willing to simply exist for 70 years, in whatever form people commonly accept they must settle for. But any ideal life will require a harmonious union between truth and love, desire and emotion, conscience and Will, industry and artistic creativity.